When is the last time you have seen an attractive person being excluded out of a job? Unfortunately, for non-attractive people according to John Moore, a counseling psychologist, attractive women get a call back rate of 47% more, while attractive men received a call back rate of 23% more than non-attractive men or women. The social experiment was done to managers from Italian companies with job openings, but not to married couples trying to hire a home helper.
Cheating is the worst fear of a married couple, for they find it hard to find the right (nanny, yard worker, pool cleaner, maid, etc.) to hire. Many of them have this fear because of television series, movies, adult content, and celebrity drama. A perfect example would be how actor Ben Affleck cheated on his wife Jennifer Garner with the attractive nanny.
Good looking home helpers should not be categorize as relationship breakers because those scenarios are happening in someone else’s life. They are also either helping the relationship get stronger or end because it was already not working. There are other reasons why I believe married couples should not avoid hiring attractive workers and here are some:
My first reason is trustworthiness because if you had enough trust to get married to he/she why debate on hiring an attractive person. According to Alissa Henry, a publisher, she trusts her partner, but would prefer hiring a mother looking nanny to eliminate temptations. I feel like in her writing, she is just contradicting herself.
What if his best for the job in your area, but you don’t hire him because he is attractive. An example would be a bodyguard, what if the attractive bodyguard knows excellent fighting techniques and shooting abilities, but you prefer to get an unattractive and untrained bodyguards to eliminate temptations because of this they would probably eliminate you.
Would he/she even be attractive to you? What if he/she is already married with kids and needs the money to help support them, but you do not know that. So, you just end up not hiring in him because of his good looks and your jealousy.
I just want to end with this quote: “Trust is like paper once it’s crumpled it can’t be perfect again”, so if you trust your partner like paper hire an attractive home helper.
Alexwrites 